Sunday, 16 March 2008

Myself

You'll get older but not necessarily wiser.
Acccept what is done is done
Accpect myself
Know what counts and what doesn't
Dedicate your life to something
Be flexible in your thinking
Only dead fish swim with the stream
Be the last to raise your voice
Be my own adviser
No fear of anything i have to overcome and face it, no surpirse of how come my life is full of huge rears ahead, no hesitation on thinking too long, i will never move on, make my choice or a decision and then go for it, dun wait for ppl to help out or make up our minds for us, no doubt, dun go over it again and again if i make up my mind.Be confident, be committed be sure of myself.
I wish i'd done that and i will
Change what i can change and let go of the rest, dedicate yourself personally to things your can change, areas where you can make a difference.
Aim to be the very best at everthing you do not seconde best, failing is fine, aiming for the second best isn't
Don't be afraid to dream, plans have to be realistic, dreams don't.
Don't dweel on the past, what every in the past was gone, these is nothing we can do to change anything that has gone before and so we must turn our attention to the here and now. It is hard to reisit the allure of dwelling on what has gone before but if we want to be successful in our life we have to trun our attention to wat is happening for us rite now. Live here, live now, live in this moment.
Don't live in the future, dreams are great but reality is find too. Living in the moment doesn't mean throwing away all your responsibilites and cares it doesn't mean taking off and being a total pleasure seeker it doesn't mean sitting cross leged and breathing deeply although all and any of these things is fine if you want. It just means taking a moment or two every now and than to appreciate being alive and to aim to act like today matters and live life to the full right here and right now.Get on with life it's whooshing past, you have to give it a bit of thought if you want to get the best out of it.
Have a belife system in myself, i dun have to prove it to anyone else, justify it and even show it.
Leave a little space for myself each day, it is the little space just for yourself while you do absolutely nothing.
Have a sense of humour, see something funny in whatever life throws at us along the way.
Life can be a bit life advertising, you'll never know from which bits of effort comes the best reward.
Get used to steeping outside your comfort zone, expanding your comfort zone makes you feel good about yourself.
Learn to ask questions, questions hep ppl clarify their thoughts.
Have dignity, is about showing self-respect and having quiet self esteem.
It's ok to feel big emotions, sitting on our feelings isn't good idea. They just get squashed that way.
Keepong the faith is something you do. being a goody goody is when you try to convert others.
You'll never understand everythng, ppl will behave oddly, things will go unexpectedly wrong or right.
Think for yourself, we all want to blend in, be one of a crowd, be acknowledged, we all want to belong.
You are not in charge, once you accept that you're not in charge you can let go.
Have soemthing in your life that takes you out of yourself, no good it being a piece of music that always lifts your mood if you don't play it occasionally, we all need something in our life that takes us out of ourselves and perhaps, stops us taking ourselves too seriously. Whether it's a dog, a child or a chat with a lonely person at a day centre, there needs to be something thatk makes you realize that all the stuff that's getting to you isn't that important and reminds you of the simple pleasures in life.
Only the good feel guilty, if you do feel guilty that's a good sign.

You read it and if you know it, you will gain it.

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