Thursday, 30 August 2007

The day in the carpark!!

Ha, Let me show the perfroment between Andy, Me and Zhi Zhong in woodland carpark!! Enjoy!!^^

Marriage and divorce


Why do married couple wanted to get divorce?
Married couple... spending so much money to get marry... getting all the frens and relatives to attend.. Every couple wanted the most wonderful wedding nite and unforgettable day.. ya it will be most unforgettable day wen they get divorce... becoz they will blame abt the money they spend ... and y all thing had turn out bad...
He said she change... she said he change.. They both said they change..
Not becoz they change... jst tat they nvr discover the hidden side of themselves, a hidden self tat they might only notice wen they get to work,wen knw more frens, wen their explore to the outer world. Many factors may let an individual self to explore their own self. Or It might be a hidden self tat only explore to the close one and the love one...
He/She complaint, he/she dun treat mi as ever nice.. not becoz he/she dun, is jst tat he/she is tired...
He/She complaint, he/she is not tat understanding anymore.. not becoz he/she dun, is jst tat he/she need more attention...
A very simple way to prevent.. communication...
Communication is difficult, communication is complicated.. but tat is the only way to solve problem.. it is not easy.. we all knw.. but tat the only way...
(The above might be wrong..) Is jst a thought.

What been done had been done!!

What been done had been done
What been done had been done!
Human tend to be angry, Nagy, complaining, scolding, unhappy, blaming and more....
What been done had been done!
These is a sentence that can move u on....
Becoz u can't do anything that had happened and had been done.
Is either u Take it or leave it. Find a solution solve the problem or just move on.....
Why do we tend to nag and complaint?
Complaint becoz we want our better expect next time..
Complaint to remind ourselves not to do the same thing again.
Complaint becoz u just like to complaint or complaint becoz u have high expectation and u just dun get wat u wan.(Human)
Nagging becoz u are not happy with the outcome, that not to ur expect.
Nagging becoz u just want to make sure and make urself feel better that u are right and not in the wrong.
all of the nagging, scolding etc... are just not to ur expect..
It is not a wrong thing to do all these, but after doing all these, u got to move on... that human..
Life will even better and happier...
Thing had been done u can't do anything, so let them go, embrace them as character forming and in general as positive rather then negative.
Accepted that what was done was done, and that u could choose to forgive and get on with ur life, things improved enormously.