Relax, which group to belong?

Relax....

Staying home alone, looking out thru the window.. had been such a long time, never been looking out of the window of my house. Ya, maybe Daniel was right, he wrote "When Sun Rise and Moon Falls... laid back and feel the ocean breeze" he's trying to relax himself with his very stress work. And not only him, i think to everyone. Looking out of the window... saw lots of ppl still walking around at 10+ at night. Look like lots of ppl still not home to rest, is rest a relax way? Are thats few hours of rest enough? People had tend to forget how to relax themselve. Everyone is busy with work and study and family.

Standing at the window, looking around, notice lots of changes around my home. The market, the road, the trees the only things that din change was the HDB outlook.
Relax relax... is drinking a way of relax? or a way of harmful?
Life is really hard and tiring, but yet we have to live it one and move on with what had been gaven.

YA!!

Human tend to react to how others react from them.
When a two person came together, whats make them fall for each others?
The out look? The behaviour? The personality? The money? Or every things?
No one is meant for each other, and is the way how they communicate. You may able to joke and have fun with fren, but how come it so hard for it to happened to couple?
Is zit becoz there are some expectation on each other that restitched them to be like frens?
I have a fren, started to ask me what does true love means? And does it still exits?
I guess, i does'nt exits any more, due to the society we are living in.
Money, pride, own prescriptive, own right and more had already cover up the meaning of true love. When you come to a relationship. Even a couple maybe married, do they still remember how much they love each other in the being? OR Do they still know why and when they start to fall in love and what the meaning of love?
Do anyone know the meaning of love.
Couple are too busy with it own life and living, each individual have own stress to cope. To compromise, to understand... is that fair for only one party to compromise and understand?
Advantage, it tend to sub conscious of taking advantage. Is always easy to tell some one what to do and what wrong with them, but is always hard to self reflect on own.
Society had start turning culture upside down, sooner or later there might be no culture... will these happened?

Is really weird!!

Hahaha you really post and is really weird hahahahha!!!

This is weird

Types of roles!!

Types of roles that i am holding...
1A daughter
2A sister
3A auntie
4A student
5A nurse
6A girlfriend
7A good friend
8A buddy
9A close friend
10A class mate
11A teacher for singing
12A MEDIUM
13A cousin

These few days, lots of things happened to my frens around me. My close friends, my friends. As for family, i think i am just too much learning and study to do, dun even have the time to help up my house but i guess my mother groups members will help up, becoz things they do, i really can't be bother. My study are really taking me so much time. Or maybe i din really handler it will enough with my time management.
I am getting old, mind and brain are really not that good as in memory.. maybe i din use for the rite things, hianz... always like to day dream... what to do, left handler are the most day dreamer person. Most of the time being alone is so good and listening to others problem, it lead me to see how others people feel and see things and it lead me to learn to understand human more.. is really incredible. Any thing will happened in these world, i guess every one know it.. extra man!!^^
Thing that happened in the 'E' clinic at part of the things happened in the school too. Seem like all these norm and society culture is every where in the world or perhaps maybe only in Singapore. Becoz that wat we are brought up too. Sad to be I am one of them too, some how i am also influence by the society.

A year had gone!!

What have i done for these year??
I end a short relationship with someone, i went in to NYP, I have started a new relationship. I went to Hong Kong, Taiwan, Batam and Bangkok.
I spend a lots these year.
Actually I did a lots of things these year, i work in SNEC, have know a group of good friends and new working colleagues. I less going for my lovely skating.. because i really have no time.
At the benign or the year, I when to Hong Kong. To have my holiday and when to look for Jimmie, shop quite a lots over there. Came back to sing, start working. During that time i still in contact with Eng Ho my Korean Friend but we lost contact.
And i still go for my weekly skating, during my Chinese new year. I invited friends to my house as usual. Get to know lots of new friends and nice friend like YQ, Cat,Geraldin, Mandy, Etherline,Tze Xing, Jeffery,rick,Katy,Henry but he hianz, dunno wat to say about him,Ivan *2,Guan Liang and the group of team Mirco kids and etc. And my NYP NICEST CLASS MATES. And the most important person of course Mr Daniel Wu. Hope he will be the one that gone thur my next whole life with me.
I still not very happy at the benign of the year, becoz things get complicated between myself. But after in April thing started to change. I get to know someone Name Zac.. hahaha the most funniest thing i have done. But he gave me lots of experience and things that i will never notice and things that if i dun tried i might not able to know i my these life. Busy very busy for the whole year. But what i am busy with, I dunno. Zac gave me very good memory, sweet boy and nice boy. Very happy to know him. I think to start the stuff, i was wrong in the first place.
Than i came to know my Hubby Daniel^^ he gave me hope and happiness..
Thank you darling really thank you. I think i have been to close to you every day. Seem like we dun have much time for ourselves. But i still love to be with you everyday. Darling sorry if i din been a very nice gf and very irritating to you. I hope you are happy to be with me. I can feel that you are more happy to be at your own home. I miss you i love you as well as lucky and your family.
Maybe i din really cope well with my temper. Sorry i am trying to control it and cooling myself. We both been thur allots, lots of difficult es in our life.
Sorry to my friend if i have no time for you all, i hope my fren can understand me, I am really busy with my school work and i am really busy with my home commitment and my family. Hope my friend can understand. I just want to concentrate on my study and more i have no income now. Hope my friend will understand. Thank you!!^^

I am really happy to know all my friends. I love the People around me.
Hope all of them have good life and happy day.^^

My complain letter.

Dear sir/Madam

Due to my unsatisfaction with lecturer Madam Wong.
I Tang Chye Fong hereby would like to explain myself in detailed form on how I was being condemned by words, disrespect from unnecessary action & lecturing in the eyes of public.

On this Date 04-December 2007. Venue: Outside Lecture hall . Issue: Holding 7 Lanyard on hand

I am very shocked by what lecturer Mdm Wong behavior and attitude shown towards me. I know that the school have rules for student not allowing on behalf of classmates to mark attendance, but these incident of mine have nothing to do with taking attendance for my classmates.

I was standing at the study bench just located outside the lecture hall, was looking out for my friends to return them their lanyard because the lecture lesson is starting soon, as when the moment I turn towards my classmate, Madam Wong appeared and had given me this surprising attitude! “She just appeared behind me and ferociously entrust her both hand and grabbed my hand which holding the lanyard, immediately snatches the lanyard away from me, and she commented with raising volume “COME I HOLD THE LANGYARD FOR YOU!! GIVE IT TO ME NOW!!“. I was stunned with her behavior that she is being so hostile and irrational. As my normal human reaction , I refuse to give her the lanyard because she did not explain to me why she wanted to take the lanyard and never let me have a chance to explain myself and I feel so unfair, and during that time I am still being nice to explain to her but she refuse to stop and listen to me and snatch the lanyard and walk always from me. I still asked her when can I get my lanyard and where, she just give me an instruction to level 3 without telling me which room or where. My friend beside me was shock by her behavior too, which I have a witness about her behavior and attitude. Is that the right way for a professional lecturer to behave and do it in such that way? I was holding it because I am recording some data of their name and admin no for our project, she hold all the lanyard and just get anyone of the lanyard without looking it and assume that lanyard she is holding was me, which it not that I had told her., and she was doing that with lots of others student around. And more, fours of my friends are going for practical test at 3pm on that day itself after our lecture, I feel so unfair for my friends being late for the practical test because Mdm Wong asked to look for her at 3pm. However can a lecturer behave in such a way and handling things in these way. There should be a nice way to approach me ,getting the lanyard from me or at least listen to my explanation before she decide to confiscate the lanyard. Or she can even get our names and return the lanyard to us and ask us to look for her end of the day, and she can gave us a warming by verbal saying. She has make us student difficult on doing things and I am very disappointed with her attitude and behave because the image of NYP lecturer to me was good. When I get to see her at level 3 at the admin office with my class mate, she can’t even recognize me, when I approach her and I admitted myself to her I am the student she caught. And within the two hour times she can’t even remember who has she caught and which is the student, that make me wonder is she enable to teach in the first place. I tried to explain myself again to her, seen like she is in the rush, and pushing and wanting to stop me from talking. Telling me that the lanyard is just like an ID to a student and is the student personal thing, and others student should not have their classmates or friends lanyard which I am agree with her, but since is a personal thing, and the student have to right to give it to who ever, as my friend trusted me to have their lanyard. I did not steal from my friends, I had the permission from them before I have it. The second thing, she was telling me if she don’t catch me with the lanyard others student which had caught by her before will talk bad about her, and she is taking these thing to personal as she’s caring about own image and being unreasonable? In the first place if she know how to hander things well, I believe student and their own judgment if she is doing her thing well.
And she was referring to my dressing, as she said my skirt was too short, I understand the school have to level of dressing, but the skirt that I wear might look short because of the cutting and the designed. And I have my preference to wear what I like since is a tertiary school, but I suggest to her, if the school really want to care about the dressing why not the school have uniform for the student, and she reply me if I want to have uniform than I should go to ITE. I feel very offended by what she said because I am the ex student of ITE, she make me feel that ITE student are not up to the standard for her to teach. How can a lecturer speck in such way to a student? I know she is concern about the dress of modesty of mind I am thankful about her concern, but she is telling me that it will give a bad impression about NYP student, as a very loss student and giving people bad impression, it is because of the past NYP incident had face and I feel that she is comparing me with the past incident, I am very offend my that too because I believe as an adult of myself I know how to take care for myself and my own image, how can she assume things and connected me to the past student, un these unfair? Yes I understand her concern, but I am not wearing an uniform that written I am from NYP, and I bet when I am out of the campus, outsider will not know I am from NYP. As for the dressing I will take note about it and will not make any trouble to the school in future. As for these feedback, I hope that the school should do something about the behavior and attitude of lecturer, I understand that Mdm Wong might be tone with over workloads, and with no offence about her age, I suggest maybe the school should lighten her workload, as seen like she can’t cope well with her behavior and attitude and I understand everyone have their own way of doing things but as a lecturer if she is behavior in these way I afraid it might influence the student too.