My complain letter.

Dear sir/Madam

Due to my unsatisfaction with lecturer Madam Wong.
I Tang Chye Fong hereby would like to explain myself in detailed form on how I was being condemned by words, disrespect from unnecessary action & lecturing in the eyes of public.

On this Date 04-December 2007. Venue: Outside Lecture hall . Issue: Holding 7 Lanyard on hand

I am very shocked by what lecturer Mdm Wong behavior and attitude shown towards me. I know that the school have rules for student not allowing on behalf of classmates to mark attendance, but these incident of mine have nothing to do with taking attendance for my classmates.

I was standing at the study bench just located outside the lecture hall, was looking out for my friends to return them their lanyard because the lecture lesson is starting soon, as when the moment I turn towards my classmate, Madam Wong appeared and had given me this surprising attitude! “She just appeared behind me and ferociously entrust her both hand and grabbed my hand which holding the lanyard, immediately snatches the lanyard away from me, and she commented with raising volume “COME I HOLD THE LANGYARD FOR YOU!! GIVE IT TO ME NOW!!“. I was stunned with her behavior that she is being so hostile and irrational. As my normal human reaction , I refuse to give her the lanyard because she did not explain to me why she wanted to take the lanyard and never let me have a chance to explain myself and I feel so unfair, and during that time I am still being nice to explain to her but she refuse to stop and listen to me and snatch the lanyard and walk always from me. I still asked her when can I get my lanyard and where, she just give me an instruction to level 3 without telling me which room or where. My friend beside me was shock by her behavior too, which I have a witness about her behavior and attitude. Is that the right way for a professional lecturer to behave and do it in such that way? I was holding it because I am recording some data of their name and admin no for our project, she hold all the lanyard and just get anyone of the lanyard without looking it and assume that lanyard she is holding was me, which it not that I had told her., and she was doing that with lots of others student around. And more, fours of my friends are going for practical test at 3pm on that day itself after our lecture, I feel so unfair for my friends being late for the practical test because Mdm Wong asked to look for her at 3pm. However can a lecturer behave in such a way and handling things in these way. There should be a nice way to approach me ,getting the lanyard from me or at least listen to my explanation before she decide to confiscate the lanyard. Or she can even get our names and return the lanyard to us and ask us to look for her end of the day, and she can gave us a warming by verbal saying. She has make us student difficult on doing things and I am very disappointed with her attitude and behave because the image of NYP lecturer to me was good. When I get to see her at level 3 at the admin office with my class mate, she can’t even recognize me, when I approach her and I admitted myself to her I am the student she caught. And within the two hour times she can’t even remember who has she caught and which is the student, that make me wonder is she enable to teach in the first place. I tried to explain myself again to her, seen like she is in the rush, and pushing and wanting to stop me from talking. Telling me that the lanyard is just like an ID to a student and is the student personal thing, and others student should not have their classmates or friends lanyard which I am agree with her, but since is a personal thing, and the student have to right to give it to who ever, as my friend trusted me to have their lanyard. I did not steal from my friends, I had the permission from them before I have it. The second thing, she was telling me if she don’t catch me with the lanyard others student which had caught by her before will talk bad about her, and she is taking these thing to personal as she’s caring about own image and being unreasonable? In the first place if she know how to hander things well, I believe student and their own judgment if she is doing her thing well.
And she was referring to my dressing, as she said my skirt was too short, I understand the school have to level of dressing, but the skirt that I wear might look short because of the cutting and the designed. And I have my preference to wear what I like since is a tertiary school, but I suggest to her, if the school really want to care about the dressing why not the school have uniform for the student, and she reply me if I want to have uniform than I should go to ITE. I feel very offended by what she said because I am the ex student of ITE, she make me feel that ITE student are not up to the standard for her to teach. How can a lecturer speck in such way to a student? I know she is concern about the dress of modesty of mind I am thankful about her concern, but she is telling me that it will give a bad impression about NYP student, as a very loss student and giving people bad impression, it is because of the past NYP incident had face and I feel that she is comparing me with the past incident, I am very offend my that too because I believe as an adult of myself I know how to take care for myself and my own image, how can she assume things and connected me to the past student, un these unfair? Yes I understand her concern, but I am not wearing an uniform that written I am from NYP, and I bet when I am out of the campus, outsider will not know I am from NYP. As for the dressing I will take note about it and will not make any trouble to the school in future. As for these feedback, I hope that the school should do something about the behavior and attitude of lecturer, I understand that Mdm Wong might be tone with over workloads, and with no offence about her age, I suggest maybe the school should lighten her workload, as seen like she can’t cope well with her behavior and attitude and I understand everyone have their own way of doing things but as a lecturer if she is behavior in these way I afraid it might influence the student too.